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Debbi Richards' Home

The Life and Times of a Carolina Girl.

Hi! I'm Debbi Richards, and welcome to my website!

A little about me and my situation: I am a married heterosexual crossdresser who is richly blessed with an understanding wife. While my wife, Charlotte, still wonders why a guy would want to wear pantyhose, a bra and high heels, she is supportive of my feminine attributes and helps me look my best. We are comfortable with my "gender gift" and attempt to have some fun with it whenever we can! Charlotte and I are partners in life and glad we found each other over 32 years ago. Being soulmates ain't bad at all!

My journey in the world of crossdressing has spanned nearly 49 years while being littered with detours, denial, loads of "near misses" and finally acceptance. This site is a place where you can read about my "adventures" and how a couple, who after 20 years together, had the subject of crossdressing enter their marriage. You can visit my wife's page located on this site and you can read about her thoughts on life with a crossdresser.

And what crossdresser wouldn't feature some of her own photos? Well, I'm no different. I enjoy modeling and once I get dressed up, I just love the camera. I also have the good fortune that Charlotte's hobby is photography! As an added bonus, we are both shoe freaks and love to shop for shoes almost everytime we go shopping! What's not to like about new shoes? If you're a shoe nut, check out the Hose & Heels page...it's one of my favorites! It has a link to my Flickr site that is loaded with over 1,000 photos of my shoe collection!

Make yourself at home and settle back with a glass of dark sweet tea while you check out the various pages. I hope you will find that this site offers you some support as well as enjoyment, especially if you've ever had the desire to wear a dress and a pair of heels! If you are married to or in a relationship with someone who does crossdress occasionally, I hope that you will see this site as a place that demonstrates that life does go on despite the fact that crossdressing still finds itself outside the societal "norm". It truly does not mean the end of the road, just a road a little less traveled. And after all, life is all about the journey, enjoying the ride and taking in the view!

All of the photos on this site are "G" rated (why would I want to embarrass anyone..especially me?). And recent updates are listed beside the various links. Enjoy your stay and be sure to come back again soon!